Becoming A Libra
The Sun is in the sign of LIBRA this month. Those of us who were born between September 23rd and October 22nd have a Sun Sign of Libra. Our keyword is I BALANCE.
If you’re a Libra Sun
If you’re a Libra Sun, your mission in this lifetime is to find the peace and harmony you crave, especially with one other person in a committed relationship. You are not a loner – you need people in your life who care about you and love you. Sometimes you’re in love with love so you settle for less than you deserve! Learn to value yourself so you can experience the true give and take in a real relationship. “Peace at any price” should not be your motto, but rather, “I will be in balance with my own needs and in my relationships.” You’re learning how to succeed in relationships, and you’re learning that you don’t need to surrender who you are just to keep the peace. That’s the whole point of being a Libra in this lifetime – to see yourself through the eyes of the person you love.
Libra is the sign of the scales of justice, symbolizing the Libra’s ability to weigh and balance. During this astrological month, September 23rd to October 22nd, of course all Libra Sun Signs celebrate their birthdays, and the rest of us join them in celebrating our need for relationships – that’s what Libra is all about! And we join them in seeking that special someone in love who makes us feel complete, which is, of course, the major lesson for any Libra Sun Sign.
From September 23rd to October 22nd this year and every year celebrate Libra energy even if we are not Libra Signs
Even those of us who are NOT Libra Sun Signs can celebrate Libra energy this month! That’s the kind of energy the universe is providing for us this month. From September 23rd to October 22nd this year and every year, we have a chance to tune into our need for a relationship partner, and our need to have peace and harmony in our lives. You’ll notice people are a little more social and less into work this month! There’s more conversations about relationship partners and people are more likely to compromise than nit-pic like they did when the Sun was in Virgo!
And for some of us who express more negative Libra this month, there’s more indecision, more “what do YOU think we should do?” conversations! All signs, Libra included, have positives and negatives! But if you’ve got a Libra in your life, give him or her some flowers this month and tell him or her how much you love them! They need outward expressions of your love and support to be all they can be!
Real astrology is not about “What’s going to happen to me?” It’s about “How can I best use the energy that’s coming at me?” And the energy that’s coming at you during this Libra month is encouraging you to weigh and balance your needs against the needs of others, and to re-discover yourself through the eyes of another person.
Even if you’ve had some negative experiences in love and are turned off to tearing those walls down and allowing another person in your life, this is the month to give it another try! Don’t be overly-dependent, as many Libra Sun Sign people are prone to do, but rather, think about how you can have an equal give-and-take relationship that truly meets your personal needs.
If you’re in a relationship, take the time to show your partner you love them. Take out that Day-Timer’s Book and ink in a get-away for just the two of you, even if it’s just a couple hours for some wine and appetizers at a fancy restaurant! Life gets so busy that sometimes you forget just how important your relationship partner is to you.
If you’re not allowing love into your life at the moment, take some time this month to weigh and balance the idea of taking some more emotional risks this month. Libra is the sign of relationships.
Ask yourself these Libra questions:
- Do I feel loved and supported by others?
- Do I shut myself off from others way too much, or do I allow sharing, real sharing, in my life?
- Do I give too much in a relationship and lose myself in the process? Am I over-accommodating just to keep the peace?
- Do I often tell people what they want to hear instead of telling them how I’m really feeling?
- How much of myself am I willing to surrender just to have a relationship? Am I getting as much as I give in a relationship?
- Am I getting more than I’m giving?
- What work do I need to do in my relationships?
This is the month to answer those questions for yourself, regardless of what your Sun Sign is!!
Next month we’ll ask ourselves Scorpio questions about whether we seek empowerment in our lives, or power and control over others! In our astrological Sun Sign bracelets, we use the semi-precious gem Rose Quartz for our Libra Zodiac Bracelet. We choose gemstones based on the qualities of the stone – if you’re trying to incorporate more relationship energy into your life (Libra energy), try a Libra bracelet with some moss agate gemstones!
Do you want to ask yourself even tougher questions this month?
Take a look at your birth horoscope, and check out which of your twelve life areas is your LIBRA area. In which area are YOU needing peace, harmony, balance, and a close “other” in your life? Is it with your finances? (2nd house) With your friends? (11th house)
ALL of us have Libra energy somewhere in our charts, and in our lives. We all have each of the 12 astrological signs somewhere! That’s why an astrology chart is divided into TWELVE areas!!
The house or astrological area where YOU have Libra is the area of your life where you will be TOO accommodating and seeking peace, or NOT letting yourself reach out to someone else. Letting yourself share with someone else in this area is what you’re striving for!!
If you don’t know where Libra is in YOUR chart, please calculate your natal chart!!