Scorpio In Love
If you are a Scorpio you are intense, dedicated and fascinated by love-play. Romance is somewhat mythical to you, you want great passion, sexually and otherwise, and you often fall back to obsession. Because you radiate sex appeal and have such an attractive personality, people easily fall under your spell. You expect love (and sex) to transform you, and that is what usually happens.
Madly in love with a Scorpio?
When you are in love with a Scorpio, you need romance: listen to sensual jazz or Gershwin. Look at a solar eclipse together. When you meet your object of affection on your own domain, use the home advantage: play games, give clues, flirt and withdraw. Scorpians will love it. Be mysterious, suggestive, manipulative and a tiny bit aggressive, while being emotionally available at the same time. Establish eye contact. Let the Scorpio know how fascinating and complex he/she is.
Those eyes. …intoxicating is the only word to describe the energy that a Scorpio generates. Should you take another step closer or head for the hills? If your previous relationships have been lacking in the sex/lust department look no farther. You may have just met that scandalous partner you have always dreamed of. We all have a dark side that we keep hidden from the world. Scorpios represent all that is provocative and mysterious. Be forewarned as you could easily be sucked into that cesspool of erotica. Scorpios are not to be mistaken for being superficial. They are very serious and should not be taken lightly. If you are looking for a sexually explosive relationship look no farther as a ‘ Scorpio can captivate you for an eternity.
Clues to Allure a Scorpio
1. Scorpios are drawn to darkness and mystery so a recommended tactic is to be “shrouded in mystery”. If they start asking you details of your life, smile and tell them you would need to get to know them better before discussing your past. They will be putty in your hands. Start wearing sunglasses at night. Wear black.
2. Be vampy…if you are a female trying to attract a Scorpio male. If you are a male after a female Scorpio it would be recommended to start a 3-day growth of beard and start wearing musky after shave.
3. Learn to stare. Scorpios love to stare so stare back. Practice in the mirror—stare intensely. Be bold and daring. They need to feel like they are captivating you with their air of wickedness.
4. Present yourself as a powerful being. Power is very intriguing and seductive to a Scorpio. They love individuals who exude power. Whether it is in your line of business (you’re the boss) or how you dominate other people, be sure to let them know in a subtle way. For example you might say, “I control the advertising budget for Disney…the – numbers are astronomical”. And leave it at that. If they ask you what you do for a living just say “A little of everything”. This may allude that you are involved in some shady operation.
5. Be scandalous. Talk about some secret sexual fantasy that you’ve always wanted to try but only dream about. Maybe some Kama Sutra technique. It will keep them thinking” about you.
The Perfect Date
Dinner in a dark and private restaurant. A Horror movie (Blair Witch Project), power lunches, your favorite astrologer (Tim Munsen), a tarot card reading, a trip to the handwriting analyst or a haunted house. You might to take them to your favorite strip or a sleazy underground nightclub. The bedroom would be your best bet.
The Perfect Gift
Sexy lingerie, Kama Sutra products, aroma therapy massage oils, tarot cards, books on astrology, books on the occult. Tickets to an underground sex show, a vibrator or if you are feeling really generous, tickets to Egypt to visit the pyramids.
What to talk about?
Any subject that has to do with power. Politics, investments, your wealthy and powerful friends. They love talking about anything that has to do with the occult, psychic phenomena, Carl Jung, or any past live experiences you may have had. –
Want to Allure a Scorpio into the bedroom?
After all is said and done getting a Scorpio into the bedroom is not a difficult task. However, you must remember that sex for a Scorpio can turn into a power play. This obsession and love of power also figures into the sexual arena. They can use sex as a tool so beware. They can go from nun to pom star in a matter of seconds. They may even withhold sex because it’s just another little “carrot” they can dangle over your head. It’s a well kept secret that some Scorpios think about sex more than they actually do it.
You need to get their attention so try to not try to get them into bed right away. Give them a mental picture of what and how you want to “do them”. You might even go so far as to whisper it in their ear while eating dinner with their parents. Without having to “go there” you will have given them an idea of how scandalous and wicked you really are. Yet you are holding out on them which will forever leave an imprint on their mind.
Another tactic that is in the same ballpark is to embark on a sexual fantasy. Tell them your deepest darkest sexual fantasy. Encourage them to share their dark secrets with you. You might want to to this over the telephone as you will be able to exercise willpower should the atmosphere become to heated. The love total freedom for themselves but can instantly spiral down into a jealous tantrum should you express sexual interest in another. One • final piece of advice….always promise them sex on the edge. You’ll have their undivided attention.
Ready to end your relationship?
A breakup with a Scorpio will not be a walk in the park. That is a given. Scorpios are known as a the official “green-eyed monsters”. Not only are they jealous but are vengeful as well. If you get out of this relationship by just having a knock down, drag out screaming match, consider yourself very fortunate. You might just want to disappear and not deal with the situation. This may be the perfect opportunity to use all of your unused vacation days.
Or if you have always wanted to upgrade to a better apartment, get motivated as you will want them to not know where you are living if your particular Scorpio is feeling very jilted. Another solution is use their fascination with the mystical. Tell them you just went to your favorite tarot card reader and that they have suggested – that you two are a terrible match. Or if you really feel daring, cheat on them. They will never forgive your infidelity. You may pay for it in some other way but at least you will know for sure that they are out of your life.
Scorpios at their best
You’ll enjoy a lusty, dark and passionate sexual experience. They will lead you down that forbidden path you have always wanted to explore. A walk on the wild side would be a good description. They make great partners in terms of their loyalty and their behavior when the going gets rough. Boredom will be a word that does not exist in your vocabulary with this enigmatic sexual animal.
Who’s Hot ?
Julia Roberts, Bill Gates, Winona Ryder, Dennis Miller, Ethan Hawk, Bonnie Raitt, Goldie Hawn ,Calvin Klein, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Sam Shepard and Jodie Foster.
Who’s Not ?
John Cleese, Dennis Franz, Richard Dreyfuss, Dan Rather, Jane Pauley, Lyle Lovett, Danny DeVito, Bo Derek.